The Myth of the Perfect Wedding Dress
Joanna Llorens
Color is more than just a visual experience; communicates emotions, cultural meanings, movements, and identities. From the depth and mystery of black to the purity of white, each hue carries its own story. Take white, for example– a color deeply ingrained in societal expectations, especially in the context of weddings.. White is the standard choice for bridal gowns, carrying the connotation of virginity and purity. The search for the perfect wedding dress is considered a rite of passage for every woman representing a moment that encapsulates happiness and total bliss because you have found “the one”. Yet, this pursuit is deeply woven and intertwined with the historical constructs that link a bride’s worth to notions of purity.
Queen Victoria in her wedding gown in 1842 | The Dreamstress
The tradition of the white wedding dress as a symbol of purity was popularized by Queen Victoria in 1842, when she chose to wear white at her wedding. This decision forever altered the symbolism of wedding attire, associating white with innocence, purity, and virginity. However, this imposition has instilled a new pressure for women to embody outdated standards of femininity.
The idea of the perfect wedding dress is often loaded with the unattainable expectations of being a perfect standard of purity. What is often overlooked is that the concept of the perfect dress varies widely depending on the culture, tradition, and personal beliefs. The idea that a bride’s self worth, morals, and values can be tied to her appearance perpetuates unrealistic expectations of womanhood.
In contrast, the color black is often associated with rebellion, particularly within gothic aesthetics. Emerged in the late 20th century as a counter-movement to mainstream culture, the gothic movement was rooted in the punk rock scene of the 1970s and drew inspiration from Victorian fashion, romanticism, and horror. . Just as the gothic movement pushed back against pop culture, black wedding dresses challenge the construct of the white wedding dress, allowing brides to redefine tradition and assert their own identities.
Punk Woman
Colors hold significant meanings for everyone, and behind every shade lies a rich history and perspective. Clothing, especially on such significant occasions, should reflect personal expression rather than conform to societal expectations. Ultimately, anything can become whatever you want it to be–and your clothes should never be an exception to that.
Strike Out,
Joanna Llorens
Editor: Carla Mendez
Joanna Llorens is a sophomore at Florida International University majoring in Public Relations, minoring in Journalism. With a passion for storytelling and fashion, she’s involved in campus organizations and eager to dive into media relations and digital marketing. Joanna is excited to explore the ever-changing journalism landscape and make a positive impact in the industry.
